Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Life as we know it!

Here's a few pictures from the last year of our life. We've done OUR unthinkable. We have together survived nearly 365 days, a complete year without Blake, my soulmate and Garnett's Daddy. It hasn't been easy or even remotely enjoyable. The past year has been the hardest year of my life, I don't imagine the next will be easy but worth living through.

October: To be honest I have no idea what we did the entire month, I do know Garnett was an alligator for Halloween.

 
 
November: Celebrated Garnett's 1st Thanksgiving home and our 1st without Daddy Blake.
 
December: Christmas, G's 1st spent at home. Our home was quite, still and simple. Chirstmas wasn't Christmas without Daddy Blake.
 
 
January: The entire month Garnett
dressed at a SUPER SUPER HERO and we got a new friend, Odie! From the moment Garnett laid eyes on "Owie" he was in love. They were inseperable!
 

 
February: We spent a few weeks in Orlando with a friend, played with "Owie" and momma got to enjoy a nigh to herself on the waterfront.


 
March: We made a 14 hour drive home to attend a memorial service for Daddy Blake. While there we enjoyed sometime revisiting our old home and friends.
 
 
 
 
April: This may have been the 1st month that I can recall events that occured without looking at pictures or videos. April was filled with many doctor visits for Garnett, long waits on momma's end and Garnett mastered his balance bike :)

 
May: May and its MADNESS!!! May was a busy month, a month of new beginning. Garnett and I started what I guess you would call therapy, there was Easter, and Garnett LIVED in his pool. May was a rather difficult month.



 
 
 
June: June was just June, another day, another month, we survived. June also held Father's Day.
 


 
July: July 1st would have been Daddy Blake's 26th Birthday. Garnett spent many hours playing with water beads. More mornings then not we went to the pier for an early morning run and then stopped by the fountain were Garnett just had to put his feet in. Garnett also discovered that veggie sandwiches are pretty tasty.
 


 
August: August was an ugly month. We spent more time away from home then we did home. I believe we were both thankful to see August end. "Owie" journeyed onward, Garnett discovered the art of dress-up, we spent several nights at the pier and many mornings playing with "street paint".
 
 



 
 
September: What a month and its only half over. Garnett has enjoyed driving his tractor through our neighborhood, playing in the rain, riding his bike for hours and we spent a few days in the hospital.
 



 
Here's to another year. Many memories. Lots of laughs. Most of all hoping we both find peace, balance, happiness and light.
 
 
 
 
 

 

72 comments:

  1. Very sad. Rest in peace sweet boy. I hope whoever is responsible rots in hell

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  2. The moment I saw the photo of the dog, I feared she would kill it. "Owie journeyed onward", huh? The dog looked scared in the photos.

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  3. How did "daddy Blake" die? And reading this blog now, this lady is practically screaming for attention. And why does her son look like a girl? Especially with the ponytail. This looks like a case of Munchausen by proxy.

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    1. Also, what's with the pacifier and diapers? Clearly a VERY disturbed "mom".

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    2. How old was he again? Someone should have notice something was wrong.

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    3. This child appears to be a girl in the photos. Dr.Drew show says the dad had nothing to do with them. She calls a dead man the dad. May this child RIP and God have mercy on a very sick mother's soul.

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    4. Dr drew is wrong. The real daddy wanted G but lacey kept telling him that it wasnt his. She wouldnt let him have nothing to do with G and she packed up from bama and moved to florida. She made this cop blake up for sympathy. O im a single mother with a sick child please feel bad for me and donate. After G died the real dad wrote her on fb and she started texting him how she needs him because THEIR son died. But the whole dead cop name blake who.died in a car crash from Decatur Al is false. Lacey got pregnant on purpose. She told me she did. She wanted a son and she got what she wanted and destroyed him

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    5. He was 3 when this was blogged. But she did breast feed him the whole time.

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  4. So 'daddy blake' died, then 'owie' died then Garnett died? Wtf.....

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    1. right. they need to investigate daddy blakes death

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    2. There was no daddy Blake. She made him up.

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    3. yeah i saw that. imaginary men to go right along with imaginary illness. shes insane

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  5. What a DISGUSTING poor excuse of a mother you are! To deliberately POISON your own child for you own gain of attention is truly messed up and people like you don't deserve to live a life breathing same air as everyone else. You SICK individual

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  7. This article says Blake is not Garnett's bio dad. Something is so fishy here (duh).

    http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/03/24/boy-unexplained-death-two-fathers/6846033/

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    1. yeah. there is no blake. this woman is insane. i see a lifetime movie in the future...

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  8. Please do humanity a favor and kill yourself. Yes, jump off the closest bridge. You sick sick thing (I can't call someone like you a human being).

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    1. Telling someone to kill themselves does not make you any better. I understand you're upset but wishing suicide on someone is sick.

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    2. Wow. Cussing someone out on the internet. That is a GREAT way to get your point across! I'll do as you say oh-so-scary stranger. Pffttt.

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    3. "As the parent of an actual child with a struggle you should always red flag people blogging about it." So you're allowed to do that but as someone whose loved one died by suicide, I cannot call people out for telling people to jump off a bridge? Good to know. Double standards, gotta love em ;)

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    4. I'm sorry that you lost a loved one to suicide. But some people do not deserve the life they've been given. This woman murdered her innocent child. She does not deserve to be on this earth anymore. The courts will find her Susan Smith style crazy and give her life in prison where she'll receive a life much better than America's poor receives. That doesn't seem fair to me. So yes, Ms. Spears, go jump off a bridge.

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  9. At first I was hoping you get the death penalty but now I hope you rot In jail forever and are made to toss big fat salad for like 60 years and that be the only form of love and affection you ever see ever again. How crazy are you I hope you read this. As the parent of an actual child with a struggle you should always red flag people blogging about it. I would never, maybe my daughter can if she wants when she is old enough. But when the parent does it its obviously fucked. I hope you burn for this this is so sad.

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  10. I hope you have your baby-making parts removed and you live the rest of your life with remorse and regret.

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  11. GoldenNoel , why?? wait for a trial it isn't sure she did this is it

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    1. She is a lying, POS. Don't be so naive. Once she is proven to be the murderous, evil witch she is, I hope she lives every day in turmoil. She was entrusted with a precious soul and squandered it.

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    2. Salt bags were found at her home according to the news.

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  12. Awful to see photos of a little boy,subjected to major child abuse by his mother for the purpose of be used as a tool to gain attention in her pretend online life.
    It's good you'll be in prison for your long, lonely life .No sympathy Child Killer ...

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  13. Did you kill him because you secretly wanted a little girl or something?

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    1. Weird, right. And the pacifier???

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    2. The pacifier to keep "her" busy sucking instead of talking. So sad.

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  14. Bitch killed her kid...for likes on Facebook. Rot in hell!

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    1. It's too bad that she didn't spend more time being a loving mother to
      her son and less time on Facebook.

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  15. I would like to lick your pussy. I have seen your pussy and it look delicious. Pussy, titties, spermhole:)

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  16. Death is too good for this thing. I hope it lives a long, long life and suffers greatly every day for what she did.

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  17. If you wanted attention, you should have learnt to make a better blog. Bitch

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  18. This is the blog she was "trying to get attention on"? With 2 posts in 3 years? And no mention of his illnesses?

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    1. That's exactly what I was thinking! She took her son's life for this?! Poor kid. With a mother like that, I pray he is in a better place now. My heart breaks...he was such a cute little angel!

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    2. i was wondering if i missed something. do you think she deleted some posts here? maybe her fb page was more detailed . it was where she posted his final hours online as well

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    3. She was very active on facebook.

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  20. My heart is breaking for this beautiful little soul. I'm the single mom of 3 little boys this brought tears to my eyes. How just HOW could you hurt this baby? I hope karma comes swiftly for u and that angel Is at peace somewhere.

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  21. This is just heart breaking!! Poor little boy! I lay here next to my five year old little boy and my heart just breaks! How could this have happened? Why didn't the hospital prevent her from being alone with him?? Poor baby.

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    1. deleted by author, interesting. Lacey, I see you are still checking this from PRISON. You are very VERY sick. You don't deserve any help though, sorry. Garnett had no reason to die. He was not sick, except for when you made him that way. No mercy. He didn't have to die.

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  23. http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2014/06/18/woman-pleads-not-guilty-to-poisoning-her-5-year-old-son-to-death/

    And here we have a mother who poisoned her own child to get attention.

    She murdered him for facebook attention.

    humanity -1

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  24. I'm a nurse, but even if i wasn't these pictures are soooo disturbing even if you don't know how it turned out. How old is this kid with pacifiers diapers and girlish style hair.
    Ugh. Freakishly disturbing.
    It said right in the articles that they have proof she administered Na through the Gtube.
    What a gorgeous child and a terrible waste.
    And I'm. REALLY PISSED OFF about the dog.

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    1. The pacifier he is to old for, the diapers too..
      But why do people keep commenting on his hair? I know many many parents who dont cut their boys hair, they are usually hippies or naturalists..
      Its a very sad situation and this little boys deserved far better.

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    2. Not cutting it is one thing, but this was obviously cut this way. It's the bangs that make the hairstyle appear feminine.

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    3. What did she do to the dog? Was it killed too, since your angry about the dog?

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    4. I think that she didn't cut his, not because she was a naturalist, but because she wanted Garnett to look like a little girl. Look at her hair, it's cut so short that when I first saw her on tv, I was confused because she looked like a man with a little girl.

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  25. i found her myspace page

    https://myspace.com/ladybuglacey20/photos

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  26. I cant belive what see in the norweegan news that a mother like you kill your own son. How selfish can you be. If you didnt want have children then why u didnt adopt him . Shame on you. You have proved that what kind of mother you what kind of mother are you.

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  27. Que Dieu ait pitié de toi.

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  28. I cannot fathom how a mother can manipulate her child in this horrid way. How can you live every day thinking of what you've done? This boy is YOUR CHILD. He is not a toy, he is a human being. That means that you do not treat him around as a pawn to upgrade your internet life. You are supposed to care for him and love him. Why are you doing this? For your little fifteen minutes of fame? Trust me, the effects of this experiment of yours will be infamy, not fame. You will regret it. There is no turning back here.

    May the Lord have mercy on your pitiless soul.

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    1. She didn't think of him as a child. He was just a prop that she used to get attention for herself. I'm curious to know if she had high number of"accidents" or "illnesses". I don't think that her attention seeking just started when Garnett was born.

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    1. I hate to say this, but your faith in humanity should have been gone long ago. I've learned to trust no one including family members. Such a
      shame.

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  30. This is heartbreaking.. i hope you to go to hades

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  31. You are a horrible person.. I hope you rot in prison.

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  32. Obviously this whole case is just devastating. Its so sickening to think if she ever had the chance to read all these comments she would love eveey second of it.
    Reading about this little boy broke my heart. I'm holding my son a little closer tonight.
    As a mother I will never understand how any person, let alone a parent could ever intentionally hurt a innocent, defenseless child.
    I hope little Garnett rest is perfect paradise where nothing is ever able ti hurt him again. <3

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